Going to be in the pub all day today :)
I feel sick
I feel sick
I feel sick
I feel sick
I feel sick to my stomach.
If I mean so little to you, and you can just cut me out of your life and forget about me whenever you want, then why am I even worth your time? Why don’t you just end it? Why didn’t you end it months ago when you realised I meant nothing to you?
Why did you make me fall in love with you, only to punish me for being so foolish?
If you’re my boyfriend, and you’re nice to me, I will treat you like a fucking king. I will cook you lovely dinners, give you everything your heart desires and please you whenever you want. I’ll make you cute things, and I’ll never, ever stop you from doing anything you enjoy.
That being said, if you treat me like shit, and it carries on for too long, you will fucking know about it until you start treating me nicely again. If you tell me to bite my tongue, or to get over it, I will flip my shit.
And that’s just the way the cookie crumbles.
This picture is so disgusting! this is some rape apologist bullshit. All it is doing is feeding into this dangerous notion that rape isnt a serious issue. Its implying that it is poor decision making on the girl’s part or that she was asking for it by either being too drunk at the party or by what she was wearing. It says “Don’t be THAT girl” what type of girl exactly? The type of girl who speaks out against rape? The type of girl that will get shut down by people and say that it was her fault or that she is making a big deal out of it? Honestly, there are way too many dudes who are willing to jump on this and like this sort of message and that really shows society’s stance on rape. All this picture does is undermine the seriousness of rape. All society and the media are concerned about is the reputation of the rapists instead of the wellbeing of the victims. Fuck this patriarchy, fuck these rape apologists, and more importantly, fuck this website. It has got to be the most disgusting, most repulsing, most revolting thing ive ever had the displeasure of coming across. I am honestly too angry to even put into words what i am thinking ugh .
Likes to dish it, doesn’t like to take it.
The girl in question wasn’t raped at all. She just regretted having sex with the guy the next day. That’s not rape. But remarkably often this results in an *accusation* of rape.
Don’t be the girl that falsely accuses an innocent man.
Getting upset over a photo that tells girls not to falsely accuse men of rape really shows your stance on the issue.
Honestly, false accusations drastically undermine the issue of rape. When men hear a story about false rape accusations, what do you think is going through their head? What do you think they will say to a girl who might come to them when she has been raped? What do you think will be his perspective about the whole issue?
False rape accusations and the negative impact they bring to the issue of rape is what causes people not to believe girls when they come forward about being raped.
So don’t get mad about an ad campaign that promotes justice for all. Rather, get pissed at the girls who falsely claim rape just because they regret their decisions.
Hell FUCKING yes. It’s not being a ‘rape apologist’ if all you’re asking for is honesty. If the act was consensual at the time, and they were both equally lucid, and neither party had to be coaxed, nor did they do something that they were specifically told not to do, then it is NOT rape. Sorry if you’ve woken up on the wrong side of the wrong bed, but you can’t blame the poor person for the fact you had beer goggles.
Men can be raped by women. Women can be raped by men. People can be raped by their partners. Minors, as a matter of fact, can throw themselves at older people (we see it first hand on this website all the time). If the first party asks the second party to do/not do something (for example, anal, pulling-out or wearing a condom) and the second party avoids or refuses the request, it is considered rape. The word should not be thrown around willy nilly, or, as it says above, it will start to lose all value and meaning. I know a lot of guys that, after hearing about a friend/girlfriend who has been abused, will double-check to make sure the story is actually true and say things like ‘are you sure you weren’t just really drunk? I’ve heard this so many times before, and it’s never true. Sorry for not believing you straight the way, but you understand, don’t you?’ And tbh, while i’m not condoning nor justifying their reactions, none of these guys are bad people, but we as a society are reprimanding them for not believing us straight the way. It’s turning in to a modern-day interpretation of ‘the boy who cried wolf’.
Before you all flame me and call me a ‘rape apologist’, this is something I have experienced first hand on more than one occasion, by strangers, supposed friends and by someone I really thought I could trust (as he was my partner at the time). So please, save your breath. Rapists are scum, but so are liars that try to ruin other people’s lives for no reason.
I am really sick of feeling like a doormat all the time.
Every morning, my dog manages to wake me up between half 5 and half 7. This morning, however, I thought I had won…until, at 25 past 8, he decided to start retching next to my bed. I threw my dressing gown on and galloped out of the bedroom, at a speed Hussein Bolt would be proud of, hoping he would hold it in. Oh, he held it alright; and waited until we were downstairs to barf all over the kitchen. Funnily enough, this is the ONLY morning I have not been able to find the back door key. Fmfl.
My dog has literally eaten part of the wall of our house.
How the hell do i get him to stop chewing before he destroys everything?!
So far, we have tried catching him in the act and telling him off, rubbing his nose in the destruction (and telling him off) and spraying vinegar everywhere.
He’s causing so much damage around the house, and I’m so skint, I really can’t afford this :( please help!
I swear to god this is the last time you will make me feel like this.
A World Without You=Unimaginable. <3
Sat in the car waiting for my mate to finish his crb checks n shiz, wish i was at home on the sofa with my better half to make up for the fact ive been a massive bellend recently. I dont know where id be with out her. Its time to sort my self out before its to late.
I really, really miss you. I can’t stand being away from you, and I can feel you drifting further and further away.
I wish you still felt this way about me. About us. Every time i see this post, it kills me.
I don’t understand why it’s so difficult to stick to plans. Or message someone back. Or to not give someone a vague idea that you might pop round, then not get in contact with them ALL DAY and make them wait around. Again.
I don’t understand people at all.
If i don’t start feeling better by my birthday I’m going to RAISE HELL
Will someone PLEASE make me a still of Brooke Langton/Haley from spn?? I need to take it to my hairdresser and I can’t find one anywhere *many cry